February 2012
203 posts
SEX WORKER PROBLEMS: For new readers: what types... →
sexworkerproblems:
Generally speaking, if you’re getting paid to get someone else hot and bothered, you’re doing some kind of sex work. Sex workers of all kinds, even if they aren’t actually having sex with anyone, have many of the same lifestyle pros and cons, as well as face the same “whore” stigma. More specific…
Kate Hate Rules!: strippr: The great internal,... →
strippr:
The great internal, eternal debate about whether to work tonight or not has begun.
I’m not sore from my race on Saturday. At least, not really sore enough to use it as an excuse not to work. After long, soothing massages from the boyfriend afterward and plenty of stretching, I…
Is It Hot In Here?: ‘I am not a stripper but I... →
eatinaintcheatin:
‘I am not a stripper but I would like to point out that I am educated and from a perfectly average family, I have no issues and aside from a lack of belief in a deity I am not immoral… Yet I am choosing to be a stripper. It doesn’t make me an object. It doesn’t mean I have problems and furthermore…
Helpful Hint
clubpatron:
yeahwritejosie:
If you don’t tip the stage, and don’t buy drinks or dances, and every other customer in the club is in the VIP, yes, we will leave you to sit & stare at the mirrors. Fucktard.
Stated simply: If you don’t pay, you don’t play.
Strip clubs are not sexist, shaming women for... →
dr-clear-heels:
Sex work in itself is not inherently anti-feminist. What is sexist about strip clubs, pornography and other commercial avenues of sex is the fact that our society has normalized the open expression of men’s sexual desire and not that of women.
Women’s equality goes beyond legal rights and equality in employment; it extends into healthy expressions of sexuality that are not...
Ohwellpart1: It’s okay to objectify women
Submitted by ohwellpart1
But here’s the thing: it’s only okay to do that if you realize that they are actually people. It’s not fucking okay to dehumanize them by thinking that’s all they are, are objects. If a woman presents herself as an object, be it model, stripper, prostitute, escort, porn star, or whatever, it’s merely a role she’s playing. It’s not unlike a waitress, who is more...
Petting My Peeve
katstories:
Do you have a pet peeve? I do. It’s men telling me to smile. I say men because I’ve never witnessed firsthand, nor even so much as heard word of some distant land where women command men that they don’t know to “smile!” for no reason.
I smile more than the average person. I smile so much that it’s not even voluntary. All night, customers compliment me on my smile and my teeth and I...
Kate Hate Rules!: My girl Cici aka London aka my... →
misskatehate:
So this guy tonight made me feel so ugly tonight…I was collecting my tips and he looked me up and down in the most disgusted way and goes “NO.” And turns around and walks away. So I’m hiding in the tanning booth and bawling my eyes out and Cici pounds on the door and is like, “Kate, my ni**a, what…
Question for girls that have worked in NYC
I have a friend who wants to find a club there, I need your suggestions. What are the best clubs to work at in NYC for a short, thin, tattoed ex-porno chick?
Shit Strippers Say #8
Stripper: I'm not sitting with him anymore because his card got declined.
SEX WORKER PROBLEMS: A couple questions about... →
After reading one of your posts about saying no is a dangerous thing, I felt you could answer my problem. I’m a stripper at a local club & every week the same man (loyal club customer) comes, offering thousands, to do what he wishes. I constantly say no. Idc about money if it comes to doing…
the sapphic stripper: NEW MEX-I-CAN STRIP TALES →
thesapphicstripper:
Last night marked my debut with Jessica on the New Mexican strip club scene.
Being the heathen that I am, I didn’t consider the fact that yesterday also marked the first day of Lent.
I walk in to the dressing room that is populated with one other dancer. Her name is Carla, she’s a…
And people wonder why I'm a bitch.
Customer: Well, in my opinion, the dance could've used more friction.
Me: ...Excuse me?
Customer: More friction. You know, more grinding. It was very... artistic...
Me: The only "friction" you're going to be getting from me is from my heel up your ass if you don't get the fuck away from me.
Customer: ...
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LOVE YOU FOR THIS
This is why we can't have nice things.: Exploiter,... →
butalasourplotthickens:
pr0n-star:
I meet someone new, and right off the bat I must determine if this budding friendship/romance is going somewhere because if it is, I must at that point find the best time to tell them that I am a stripper. This can be difficult sometimes because if I tell someone too soon, they cannot fully…
YES!
Taking my clothes off and looking sexy pays my...
diirtyprettythingz:
So keep hating bitches :-*
Reccomendations for blogs?
harlequinfairy:
I really wanna follow more sex worker blogs (particulary strippers) that write a lot about their day, their work and that stuff, need more to read and would like to speak to people that i can relate to and get support from. Followers help me out please! Xoxo
StripperArmy: Stripper Wages →
stripperarmy:
i work at the lamp lighter in st paul. aparently its the law and its going to be put in place all across the country. It pretty much sucks… they raised our shift fees $8 an hour to cover the $7.25 that they have to pay us, and then the government takes taxes out. So basically we lose somewhere in…
Strippers are sluts?
ihatemisslala:
HA! that is the funniest thing that I have ever heard honestly. C’mon on now, at most clubs you’re not even aloud to TOUCH a stripper. Dancers are smart, they use what they got and make more money then you. Smart, sexy and rich. the end… Strippers are sluts? hahhh you make me laugh
Shit Strippers Say #5
Stripper 1: Layla, your butt is wet.
Stripper 2: Ohhh, so he did cum on my ass, no wonder he stuck a bunch of $50's in my panties and left.
Stripper 1: ... -_-
fuckyeahmyvagina asked: Hey! I am such a fan! I am new to tumblr and have been a dancer/dom in Portland OR for 6 years. I actually found tumblr because many girls in my club follow you! I just started my own tumblr called Fuck Yeah My Vagina. I hope you put me on your directory of strippers on tumblr :) Also, I am, on my own time, an erotic performance poet and write quite a bit about dancing and sex work. If I submit a...
jemapellejacquelyn asked: I bartend at a strip club and I'm pretty much fascinated with the dancers there. I always want to ask them questions but I don't want to annoy them or offend them. You've answered a lot of my questions on here and I'm glad to see that other people wonder the same things. Thanks :)
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Shit Strippers Say #4
Stripper (while whining with her hands full of money): I only made $800 tonight, what the fuuuck.
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